a native, rural South Africa

Thursday was a holiday here in South Africa: Human Rights Day. So a couple of the ladies and I went to the Lesedi Cultural Village and the Hartbeespoort Dam. The Cultural Village is kinda like the Polynesian Cultural Center in Hawaii- performers reenact the culture and life of the 5 largest native peoples of South Africa: the Zulu, Xhosa, Basotho, Pedi, Ndbele. The all wear native dress and make a lot of the items they sell as souvenirs. They began a presentation with singing and playing the marimba, then told us about the geographical and historical differences between the groups. They had replicas of the traditional villages and we interacted with the "natives" as we walked around the mini villages, observing them "live" in the traditional way. The grand finale was a dance performance of the traditional dances of the groups with stories of their meanings...and of course I joined in the fun. :) I can't deny the call of dancing and music.
We then drove to a town called Hartbeespoort to eat, named for the Hartbeespoort Dam which creates a breathtaking lake nestled in the hills and ridges of the area. The water was a beautiful blue-green, the sky was clear, the sun high and hot, the trees were full and green. It was wonderful.

All in all a good day for my first outing in South Africa.
The countryside is pretty varied here, around Pretoria there are lots of trees and flowers that seem to grow wild. In fact they say that Pretoria is the Jacaranda capital of the southern hemisphere, the streets are lined with them and I'm sure when they are blooming it is gorgeous. However,as we drive out not too far from the city the landscape becomes more rocky and drier, with cactus growing in the midst of the tall grasses and sparsely situated trees. Once again, it reminds me so much of Southern California.
One difference: the earth is red. The red dirt of Africa. The color contrast between the red earth, golden grass, bright green trees, and clear blue sky makes for gorgeous scenery. A beautiful country!

Jet lag has taken its toll on me. I thought I was over it, sleeping 8 hours Wednesday night after taking an ambien, just in case. But then Thursday night I hardly slept a wink. I was extremely exhausted Friday, and fell asleep while watching a movie in my room after work, I woke up after a couple hours, figured I better just go to sleep for real, but had a really hard time of it. Sigh.... took an ambien and finally got to sleep for another outing on Saturday.

eat...eat...eat

so far one of the most consistent parts of my time in South Africa has been delicious food. Last night we (we = some of the other USAID staff staying at my hotel and I) went to this Indian restaurant down the street and  I had the most delicious apricot chicken curry with garlic naan. mmmmmm....I'm happy just thinking about it again. Luckily I have a propensity for not eating my whole plate and so I had it again today for lunch.

Tonight one of the other USAID staffers talked the hotel owner into making us a feast on the roof of the hotel. And I mean feast...and a greek one at that! The hotel owner is greek and the kindest person ever, so  friendly and loves to serve. She opened her apartment to us on the roof and let us eat on her balcony overlooking the city as the sunset. It was heaven! Picture this: the sun setting, the half moon rising, the temperature perfect, the crickets singing, a light but warm breeze blowing, geraniums and lime trees lining the railing of the balcony. Ahhh....
I think the only reason I am justifying all this lavish food is number one: everything is a bit cheaper here (our highly recommended 4-star indian meal cost me less than $20), number two: I'm basically on vacation, number three: I'm getting plenty of money for food, number four: I'm in South Africa! (not that anything I have eaten yet is traditional South African food..haha. that will come tomorrow!!)

I am learning to enjoying eating here with these people. Most of them are used to eating out and living abroad and are older so they take their time to eat, they pause in between the appetizers, the salad, the main courses and the dessert. They chat and eat slowly, seeming to enjoy the time spent consuming a meal, rather than just a chore to be done. At first I was a bit flustered and I wanted to hurry up and eat to get on with my night (cuz there are always a million things to do) but then I realized: what is there for me to do after we return or finish eating? Nothing. So I told myself: Alicia Marie (that's what I call myself... :) ) calm down and enjoy the one chance you have to fully enjoy these great food experiences! (so un-American and so un-me) My sister would be so proud!

I almost feel guilty for enjoying myself so much and eating/living so well in AFRICA of all places- which is made up of more poor countries than any other region/continent in the world. But hopefully if I am spending money here, that means that someone is continuing to work and the country is continuing to receive income. I saw a site that said something like for every $1 of tourism money spent in Africa, one family is fed for a day. Well this is why I work where I do I suppose.

Tomorrow is Human Rights Day - a national holiday, so no work! I already have a full day planned. A couple of the ladies have kinda taken me under their wing, so we're having a girls day of exploring. I'm grateful they are letting me tag along so I don't have to face exploring the countryside by myself. I'm the only one I know who seems to think that's a good idea....haha :)

a peaceful morning in Pretoria

I never thought I would say this, but having a phone without the typical smart phone capabilities and being without Internet at my hotel for the last 48 hours has been great. I have not been able to check my email every 5 seconds, glance at Facebook when I'm bored, or get live updates on every bit of news.
I feel so detached from my typical world, and yet the detachment is so liberating! Honestly I might make this a permanent thing even when I get back to the states....I know that would be a great surprise if I actually do it...we'll see.

I enjoyed the most lovely morning my first day in Pretoria! I didn't actually fall asleep after my attempt to read/post at 3am. So I got a total of maybe 4.5 hours of sleep last night. Reminds me of my college days. But this morning I was actually glad I was up before the sun rose to hear the world waking up. I heard the first birds start chirping, then the first cars zoom down the road, then the first sunlight peer it's way through the curtains. I was able to get up, get ready, enjoy my balcony with the door open, have breakfast outside and all way before the van came to pick me up to go to the office. It was amazing. And since I'm pretty sure my body is still in shock I wasn't groggy or unhappy to be awake like most mornings (I'm not really a morning person...although if every morning could be like this one I might consider converting!)

This country is beautiful! The people are so kind. (Well from the 18 hours I've experienced of it) it's wonderfully warm and not too humid or dry. If I don't return to the us....you'll know where to find me.

AND...as if my life couldn't get any better right now...Thursday is a national holiday as well as next Friday and the following Monday so the office is closed! More time to explore! How is it that I keep getting so lucky? Ahh I love life.

My morning view from my hotel room:

first impressions: warm sunsets in South Africa

apparently the ambien I took has worn off because I can't sleep. it's 3:30am... Johannesburg time. I went to bed at 10 very tired and fully expecting to sleep through the night....no such luck. and I'm starving. my poor body doesn't know if it's supposed to be tired or hungry or what time of the day it is. i kinda felt like I was stuck in the belly of a 777 whale for 20 hours....i got in and it was sunday evening in georgia, i got out to be greeted by the sunny warm evening of Johannesburg. somewhere in between passed a night, but I didn't really see it...crazy. my poor body has been through a lot these past 24 hours-planes are not super comfortable for extended periods of time in case you were wondering. but we're hanging in there, mostly just happy to be here...in South Africa!
all I can hear are the constant buzz of the cicadas and the occasional creak of the ac unit. It is wonderfully warm here in South Africa. not the muggy, oppressive heat of the east coast or the blasting, searing heat of the high desert, but instead its like a constant warm blanket of air-pleasant and fresh, even after the sun has gone to bed.
The countryside reminds me of California-gentle rolling hills, covered by golden grasses, large trees, some which I have never seen before, interspersed with familiar palms and bushes.
The sun is big and bright making for most beautiful sunsets! I have missed the sunsets of the west so much, I think I might be in danger of falling in love with the sunsets of South Africa.
I think my tired eyes are ready to close again...lets see if they will stay that way for a little while longer :)

ill bless the rains down in Africa!

tomorrow I am going to South Africa!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
......I'm just kinda excited. this will be my first time going to the African continent. shoot that's cool.
yes I am going for work...and yes I will be working while I am there, BUT there is no work on the weekends ....you know that that means that this girl will be taking full advantage of being in a foreign country for 3 weeks = adventures (and it means that not only am I getting paid while I am there, but they are paying for EVERYTHING)

the flight down there is crazy long- I will be traveling for 22 hours starting tomorrow afternoon....that is an insane amount if time I decided so I got the Big Bang theory on DVD to entertain myself. as well as sleeping pills. here's hoping I don't get cabin fever on the 777 I will be stuck on. :)

to close with a quote from big bang theory tonight:
from Leonard to Sheldon: "it looks like once again you are stuck between a rock and a crazy place."
very fitting for my travel tomorrow I think!

See you in Africa! yeah....I'm going to Africa. (still doesn't feel real..someone pinch me)

my motto

I love the strong, bold declaration by Paul in the new testament:

for I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believeth. (New Testament, Romans, Chapter 1, verse 16)

this is true! salvation comes to everyone who believes in Jesus Christ.

what a powerful statement. I am also not ashamed. I love the gospel of Jesus Christ. I know He is the savior and redeemer of the world. I know that he is there, that he lives, that he is full of grace and mercy and truth.

this is my motto. I am not ashamed!

I am constantly learning about Him and His role in my life. visit http://jesuschrist.lds.org/SonOfGod/eng/

Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life? -Mary Oliver

‎"Always be a first-rate version of yourself, instead of a second-rate version of somebody else." --Judy Garland

i believe that one of our missions/goals in this life is to find out what our talents are and use them to bless others, to influence the world for good. each one of us has our own specific set of gifts...and your gifts are unique to you. sure maybe someone else can do one or two of them also, and maybe even one better than you, but not in sync with all the other talents you have. there is only one YOU. there is only one ME. so we must discover our gifts! what things come so naturally to you that you excel without trying? what activities make your heart sing? what would you define as so uniquely you that no one else you know enjoys that/knows how to do that? God gives us these gifts. He can do everything and knows everything perfectly, and as His children, we have each inherited parts of His divinity. what a wonderful, amazing journey that we can find out what sparks of divinity are within us! i think that as we try to decide what to study, what career to pursue, or what path to take, we should take this inventory of discovery and use the talents we have discovered we possess and use that as our guide. don't let others dissuade you from your discovery. they have their own unique blend of gifts. they see things differently and thus would choose differently. this is your one life, you have your own specialities. (yes i just made that word up) your talents are given to you to make it a bit easier for you to brighten the path of those around you. if you don't know, ask God. He knows how amazing you are and what makes you unique. He wants you to know. be you, not who you think the media or society or others want you to be. it feels wonderful! and is so worth the time and introspect required.